“but black people say the n word all the time!”
Because in order to appreciate the magnitude of this problem, you need to hear the stories of those dealing with the resulting trauma.
I’d always been pro-choice, but I’d also always said I’d never get an abortion myself. Still, once I was actually pregnant, I was pretty sure from the beginning what I would do. And I felt better knowing that I could take a couple of pills and stop being pregnant that way, because I believed I wasn’t very far along. A friend who’d had an abortion two years earlier told me there’d be a sonogram, but it was just procedure and I’d barely even know it was happening. Looking back, that’s the only reason I stayed, because if I had known what a Planned Parenthood looked like I wouldn’t have stayed in the place where I ended up.